Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Freedom of Choice

There are both many pros and cons of being responsible for your own decision making. Most adolescents can not wait to turn 18 to legally be on their own because they're tired of living under their parents' roof always expected to listen to their rules and follow their advice when it comes to making decisions but when you get to that point you realize how helpful they were and how it's a little scarier than you thought being on your own. Making your own decisions is great in the way that it is entirely up to you what happens, your choice is your choice and hopefully you can make the right one. The pros are alot heavier for those who are confident in themselves and naturally independent. I am the most indecisive person and I always need to get a second opinion on something to reassure what I really want. Being responsible for making your own decisions can you teach you many lessons and be a real test of maturity. It gives you the chance to really take the initiative to do what you want in life and not have to listen to anyone else telling you what they think is right for you which ultimately will either work out for you, but if it doesn't it just makes you a wiser person. It definitely would make things a little harder because you would have to worry about everything on your own, but not answering to an adult would be a new experience making life easier in a different aspect. Sometimes the easiest thing is being told what to do by someone else because that eliminates the possibility of you making a wrong decision but will that decision really be whats best for you? No one can ever answer that except yourself.

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